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Sunday, December 7, 2008 | 3:12 AM

Jialin has withdrawn into herself. She is reserved and shows her feelings only at times of great anger, extreme passion, or tremendous stress. Jialin is an introvert. She makes decisions based on logic, therefore she is rarely impulsive. She doesn't find any need for expressing her emotions. In fact, she probably sees this emotional expression as an unnecessary waste of time. She has a hard time relating to an extreme extrovert, although it is common for her to be attracted to one. Many people do not understand Jialin; it is difficult for them to really know how Jialin feels. Jialin enjoys being alone, and probably prefers working alone. Working with her hands is a pleasure.

Jialin's basic nature is to look out for herself first. Although she can and does feel emotions, perhaps as deeply as anyone, she just almost always harbors them inside.
The first time someone angers Jialin, she probably will not say anything to that person at that time. However, she will mentally keep track of everything this person does wrong to her until she cannot hold her emotions inside any longer. Then; Boom! Jialin will cloud up and rain all over them. And she will never regret telling someone off, because she knew what she was saying the entire time. She won't impulsively tell someone off.
Emotional stories will not sway Jialin. She thinks totally with judgment, first considering every situation by the effect it will have on her.

Jialin needs space and time alone. She will be much more efficient if given a job alone, rather than being surrounded by people.

Jialin is a cumulative and procedural thinker. She likes to have all the facts before making a decision. She thinks or creates much like a brick mason, stacking fact upon fact. Her thought pattern or the conclusion will not be complete until the last fact is in place. Like that brick wall, Jialin learns faster through visual demonstration than through quick verbal instructions. Once she has learned new material, and understood it, she won't forget.

Jialin is a methodical thinker, therefore she is able to build things and come up with new ideas. In an argument, she often loses to rapid thinking people because she is thinking thirty minutes later about what she should have said. These people often are very booksmart, but can be out-gunned in a rapid fire verbal debate.

She may learn new ideas at a slower pace than other "less detailed" people, but once she gets it, she can handle repetition. Some people hate jobs with too much repetition, she can handle it better than most.

Jialin's true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told Jialin that she wasn't a great and beautiful person, and she believed them. Jialin also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. She doesn't have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. Jialin is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem.

Jialin's self-concept is artificially low. Jialin will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because she is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Jialin to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. She may tell you her dreams but she is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud she speaks, look at her actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Jialin is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.

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Accuracy : 3/10

going off to bed...buai~